What to expect when you first discover you are a Lesbian. Chaos.

Just yesterday, or last week, or month or whenever you were a practical, straight woman, mid thirties, or forties, (or something), married to a man, with children. You had a good life, a comfortable life. You were fairly happy. Then you had that moment with her, and Oh. My. God. I don’t know who she […]

How to make a butch lesbian swoon

 “Kinky is using a feather. Perverted is using the whole chicken.” A small slip of paper with that phrase and 51 of its closest friends are currently hidden in R’s apartment.   My grandmother would call her my “lady-friend.” I’ll go with R, it’s simpler and less cheesy. This all started because R decided to play […]